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July 18, 2011

Why Customer Secrets Are the Ultimate Game-Changer in Business

                   

Why Customer Secrets Are the Ultimate Game-Changer in Business

In the cutthroat arena of modern business, where competition is fierce and differentiation is elusive, the most successful organizations don’t just understand their customers—they know them.

They go beyond the surface-level needs and tap into the secrets that drive individual desires, cravings, aspirations, and behaviors.

These secrets are the untapped goldmine that separates the mediocre from the extraordinary, the followers from the trailblazers.

Needs are common; Secrets are power.

Most businesses operate in the first tier of customer understanding—the needs-layer.
They focus on identifying what customers need and delivering products or services to meet those needs.

But here’s the brutal truth: everyone is doing this.

The needs-layer is saturated, and it offers no sustainable competitive advantage. Why? Because most people already have what they need.

The real opportunity lies in the second tier—the secrets-layer.

This is where you uncover what customers want, what they covet, what they dream about, what they crave.

It’s where you discover the hidden drivers that make them tick.

The Secrets-Layer: The Untapped Frontier of Customer Insight — A customer secret is not a mass-market trend or a generic desire.

It’s deeply personal, unique to each individual. It’s a habit, a bias, a dream, a fear, a lifestyle choice, or even an unspoken aspiration.

Crowds don’t have secrets—individuals do.

And when you uncover these secrets, you gain the ability to deliver something that no one else can.

You create experiences, products, and services that resonate on a profoundly personal level.

This is the ultimate differentiator.

While your competitors are busy meeting needs, you’re fulfilling desires.

While they’re playing catch-up, you’re setting the pace.

◼️ What Does This Mean for Marketing? — The shift to a secrets-layer focus transforms the way you approach marketing.

Gone are the days of periodic, mass-market research that gives you a snapshot of what people need.

Instead, you must adopt a continuous, individualized learning process.

You need to engage with customers on a deeper level, uncovering their secrets in real-time and using that information to craft hyper-personalized offerings.

This is not just about selling; it’s about building intimate customer relationships.

When you understand a customer’s secrets, you can create marketing campaigns that feel tailor-made for them.

You can craft messages that speak directly to their hopes, fears, and aspirations.

This is how you build loyalty, trust, and long-term engagement.

◼️ What Does This Mean for Customer Service? — Customer service is no longer just about fixing problems—it’s about turning mistakes into moments of magic.

When a service blunder occurs, the secrets-layer becomes your secret weapon.
By leveraging what you know about the customer, you can turn a negative experience into a loyalty-building event.

A service mistake can create a “gaspworthy” moment and a raving fan forever.

The key is speed and personalization.

You need to respond within 24 hours, and you need to surprise the customer with something that feels deeply personal.

Maybe it’s a gesture that aligns with their lifestyle, a gift that reflects their hobbies, or a solution that addresses a challenge they’ve been quietly grappling with.

When you recover in a way that feels personal, the customer doesn’t just forgive you—they become even more committed to your brand.

◼️ What Does This Mean for Sales? — Sales teams must evolve from being product pushers to secret gatherers.

The traditional role of hitting quotas and pushing products is no longer enough.

Salespeople must be trained to ask the right questions, listen intently, and uncover the secrets that drive customer decisions.

This is not just about closing deals; it’s about building trust.

When a salesperson takes the time to understand a customer’s secrets, they’re not just selling—they’re connecting.

And that connection is what leads to long-term relationships and repeat business.

To make this happen, organizations must incentivize Secret Gathering.

Sales bonuses should be tied to the ability to uncover and leverage customer secrets.

This isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s a strategic imperative.

◼️ The Secret Discovery Process: How to Uncover What Really Matters — The process of uncovering customer secrets is both an art and a science.

It starts with asking the right questions and listening deeply.

You need to show genuine interest in the customer’s story, not just your own agenda.

When customers feel heard and understood, they’ll willingly share their secrets.

The key is to shift from transmit mode to receive mode.

Instead of talking about your products or services, focus on learning about the customer.

Ask questions, take notes, and follow up.

Over time, you’ll build a Secrets Manual for each high-value customer—a living document that captures their unique desires, preferences, and challenges.

◼️ The Ultimate Competitive Advantage — In a world where technology, branding, and product features are easily replicated, customer secrets are the one thing that can’t be copied.

Customer Secrets are the ultimate source of sustainable competitive advantage.

When you understand what makes your customers tick, you can create offerings that feel irresistible.

You can build relationships that are unbreakable.

And you can achieve levels of performance that are unmatched.

The question is not whether you should start uncovering customer secrets—it’s how quickly you can make it a core competency in your organization.

The organizations that master this will not just survive; they will thrive.

They will be the ones setting the pace, defining the future, and reaping the rewards of a customer-centric revolution.

The hidden edge is there for the taking. Are you ready to unlock it?

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 7.18.11 at 11:00 am by Roy Osing
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July 16, 2011

3 easy things you need to know for startup success


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3 easy things you need to know for startup success.

So you have a cool idea that you think people will love. You think it will make you lots of money. You want to start your own business.

How do you go about it?

Here are 3 things you should do to at least increase your chances of success:

1. Make sure your idea is different

Before you do anything to move your new idea forward, make sure it’s different from what others in the market are doing. If you don’t have an idea that offers people something different from what other products are available, you will most likely be one of the startup failure statistics.
If your idea is the same or similar to what others offer, you simply won’t get noticed. Your competitive strategy should be based on uniqueness: to be the ONLY one that does what you do.

2. Keep your planning horizon short

Think in terms of what you want to achieve over the next 24 months. Your financiers may want a 5 Year Plan but you need to keep your eyes on short term goals. execution is critical and is enabled through a focus on “What am I going to do in the next 30 days?”.
Remember: the 5th year of a 5-year plan won’t show up if you can’t find a way to navigate through the vagaries of the near term.

3. Create a base of support for your idea

You need to garner a crowd of supporters for your idea. People who love it. People who want you to succeed. People who are willing to commit their time and energy to spread your word to others.
Use them to start your marketing efforts. It’s the most inexpensive and effective way to get going. And if you have trouble organizing a group of support for your idea then maybe it’s not a good idea.

Key concepts: ONLY competitive positioning, monthly goals and fan marketing.

Good luck!

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 7.16.11 at 10:00 am by Roy Osing
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July 4, 2011

How worthless activities in your business can be removed in a simple way


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How worthless activities in your business can be removed in a simple way.

So you have developed a new business plan for your organization. You have communicated it far and wide. You seem to have buy-in. But progress to the brave new world is slower than you expected.

Your analysis of the situation produces the overwhelming feedback that people don’t have the time to take on any more work.

There are only so many hours of the day and they have no more to give. In addition, people are saying there are too many priorities. They don’t know what to do with so many demands of their time.

Sound familiar? Ever been here? Too much work. Too many number one priorities. The symptoms that CRAP abounds in your organization.

CRAP is work that is no longer relevant to the new strategy you have created but for some reason it continues…. and continues…. and continues. Sucking up energy and hours of the day that could and should be devoted to doing the new stuff necessary to progress the organization.

Some people like CRAP.

▪️ CRAP is comfortable.
▪️ CRAP is familiar.
▪️ CRAP is fun.
▪️ CRAP is the old world.
▪️ CRAP may have got you recognized and promoted.

CRAP needs to be destroyed in order to be able to take on the new challenges. The biggest source of resource to do new stuff is the time currently being spent on doing CRAP

There are three things you can do to eliminate it.

1. Assign a Cut the CRAP champion

You need one person whose sole reason for being is to identify CRAP and get rid of it. In fact their compensation plan needs to be based on how much CRAP they are able to dispose of. No CRAP; No PAY.
You say you don’t have any CRAP? You haven’t looked close enough.

2. Create a Cut list

Identify those things that are now active which are candidates to cut. Do a complete inventory of all projects on the table. Evaluate each in terms of consistency with the new direction. Build a criteria for the evaluation. And make the Cut list as long as you can.

There will be a tendency for people to rationalize everything as being necessary. don’t fall into this trap otherwise you won’t uncover new available time. Be sure to record the people working on the CRAP because they represent potential resources for re-deployment or exit (if they are unwilling to accept a new assignment and the new strategy).

3. Create a Keep list

This list must be kept small in order to get new bandwidth for new things. Be brutal on what goes on this list. If a project is less than 80% aligned with the new strategy put it on the Cut list.

The Keep list must only contain No Brainer Work that is so obviously necessary that it attracts no debate whatsoever. It’s ok to move a project from Keep to Cut easier than from Cut to Keep. Pressure must be on resourcing the critical few things that are necessary to have an 80% impact on the new strategy.

You now know what you have to do.

STOP the Cut stuff and reassign to the Keep Stuff..

And tell everyone in the organization what you have done and the new time you have found for them to be able to implement the NEW.

And keep the Cut the CRAP champion on stand-by for an audit in 12 months to make sure the CRAP doesn’t creep back in.

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 7.4.11 at 11:00 am by Roy Osing
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June 30, 2011

Why customer caring is way better than customer service


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Why customer caring is way better than customer service.

The organization that provides amazing customer service doesn’t provide customer service at at all, they serve their customers in an exemplary way.

Here’s the distinction. Most organizations provide levels of customer service that is governed by a set of internal rules and policies that are used to manage the customer engagement process.

Customer serving organizations, on the other hand, serve by putting the customer in control of the engagement process and by finding every possible way to say yes to what they want.

A recent experience at Duke’s Restaurant in Kaanapali Maui has opened up another distinction to me: taking care of customers.

Taking care is really a deeper level of serving

It has a dramatic impact when you feel it.

Taking care is more about my comfort during the serving process. Anticipation of potential areas of discomfort and dealing with them seamlessly. Almost going unnoticed.

Too many glasses of water on the table cramp my space. Reducing comfort.

Soiled napkins make the table unsightly. Reducing comfort.

Crumbs and food leftovers on the table having the same effect. Reducing comfort.

Pacing the serving process consistent with the unspoken needs of the customer. Flex the speed based on what is observed and felt by the server.

Heather, from Southern California, effortlessly ensured our comfort level was taken care of without invading our space and I almost felt that if I had a morsel of Mahi Mahi on my cheek she would have removed it without my knowing 😊

Did Heather reach this level of serving effectiveness by being well trained?

No.

She was born this way.

Bottom line:
serve your customers by taking care of them;

— build an organization that says ’yes’ to them no matter what.

— take care of them. Make sure they are comfortable in your environment. Make them feel at home.

— And recruit people who do this naturally.

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 6.30.11 at 11:00 am by Roy Osing
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