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October 20, 2025
Why Hands-Off Hiring Is an Enormous Leadership Quandary

Why Hands-Off Hiring Is an Enormous Leadership Quandary
In today’s dynamic business environment, effective leadership extends beyond strategy development; it hinges on the quality of recruitment.
However, many leaders adopt a “hands off” ✋ hiring approach, assuming that delegating recruitment to a Human Resource function is sufficient.
This mindset often overlooks the critical aspects that transform a good hire into an exceptional one.
Traditional HR is out of date.
Traditional HR practices tend to focus on quantifiable metrics such as technical skills and previous experience.
While these factors are undoubtedly important, they can create a narrow view of an applicant’s true potential vis-a-vis playing an active role in executing the organization’s strategy.
Leaders who rely exclusively on these classic hiring categories run the risk of neglecting a crucial element: the “human caring ❤️ factor.”
It’s not just about finding someone who can perform a specific role; it’s about discovering how that person will contribute to the company culture in terms of engaging with customers and colleagues.
CARING is a strategic issue.
Qualities such as empathy, listening, interpersonal skills, and the ability to connect with others are essential for fostering a thriving workplace.
How do candidates FEEL about teamwork? What experiences demonstrate their commitment to CARING for others?
These questions delve into the essence of human relationships in the workplace and are integral to identifying talent that aligns with the organization’s values and goals to take care of people.
Moreover, personal stories from candidates can reveal their innate character and passions, offering insights into how they might resonate with customers and coworkers alike.
Epic performance in any organization arises from deeply engaged employees who are passionate about their work and invested in delivering “gasp-worthy” customer experiences.
Engaged employees create competitive advantage.
Therefore, the recruitment process must reflect the leader’s vision 💡 and commitment.
By actively participating in hiring, leaders can ensure that they select individuals not only capable of executing strategies but also of nurturing a collaborative environment.
The recruitment process is more than just filling a vacancy; it is an opportunity to shape the organization’s culture and direction.
Leaders should embrace their role in hiring, making it an integral part of their strategy 📈 for success.
Cheers,
Roy
My Podcast Show Audacious Moves to A BILLION shares the specific Moves I made to achieve jaw-dropping growth in an insanely competitive internet business.
”The Audacious Unheard of Ways I Took a Startup to A BILLION IN SALES” is the latest in my BE DiFFERENT or be dead Book Series.
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- Posted 10.20.25 at 06:00 am by Roy Osing
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October 15, 2025
Wacky Wednesday: Excellent Reasons To Replace Handshakes with Interpretive Dance

Wacky Wednesday: Why We Should Replace Handshakes with Interpretive Dance
Let’s face it: handshakes are so last century.
They’re stiff, 😕, and let’s be honest, no one knows the right amount of pressure to apply.
Too soft? You’re a limp noodle.
Too firm? Congrats 🥳, you’ve just declared war on someone’s knuckles.
It’s time to shake things up—literally—and replace this outdated ritual with something far more entertaining: interpretive dance.
Picture this: You walk into a business meeting, and instead of extending your hand, you break into a dramatic, soul-stirring routine that perfectly encapsulates your mood.
Feeling confident? Throw in some jazz hands.
Nervous 😬 ? A subtle, trembling sway will do the trick.
The possibilities are endless, and the best part? No one will ever forget you.
Think about it. Interpretive dance is the ultimate icebreaker.
It’s a bold, unapologetic statement that says, “I’m here to make an impression, not to blend in.”
Plus, it’s a great way to weed out the boring 🥱 people.
If someone can’t appreciate your spontaneous pirouette, do you really want to work with them?
Sure, there might be a few skeptics.
“But what about professionalism?” they’ll whine.
To which I say: Professionalism is overrated.
Life’s too short to be dull.
Imagine the stories you’ll tell: “Remember that time I sealed a deal with a moonwalk?” or “Yeah, I got the job after nailing that dramatic leap across the boardroom.”
And let’s not forget the health benefits.
Handshakes are basically germ-swapping ceremonies.
Interpretive dance? It’s a full-body workout that keeps you at a safe distance.
No germs 🦠, just glory.
So, let’s ditch the handshake and embrace the chaos.
Let’s make every meeting, every introduction, every awkward encounter a chance to express ourselves through the universal language of dance.
Because life’s too short to be ordinary 😴 .
Go forth and interpretively dance your way into someone’s heart—or at least their memory.
Wacky Wednesday, indeed.
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Cheers,
Roy
My Podcast Show Audacious Moves to A BILLION shares the specific Moves I made to achieve jaw-dropping growth in an insanely competitive internet business.
”The Audacious Unheard of Ways I Took a Startup to A BILLION IN SALES” is the latest in my BE DiFFERENT or be dead Book Series.
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- Posted 10.15.25 at 06:00 am by Roy Osing
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October 13, 2025
10 Sad Reasons People Like Being in a Crowd

10 Sad Reasons People Like Being in a Crowd
The well known Bell Curve is an excellent expression of today’s social dynamics.
Like this curve, which bulges in the middle around the Y-axis populated by the masses, and tapers off into less dense tails, society, too, has its ‘crowds’ and ‘outliers’.
Within this humdrum middle zone, the multitude find comfort, security, and identity, gravitating naturally to the “blobbed” center without much introspection.
But why do people land in the crowd, and more importantly, why do they choose to stay?
#1. Familiarity — The most prominent reason is familiarity. For many, the crowd is where they’ve always been.
It’s an environment filled with like-minded individuals, sharing common values and beliefs.
They are among ‘their people,’ ensuring a sense of belonging and lessening isolation.
#2. Comfort — Crowds offer a comfort zone.
Being part of a larger group means adhering to shared norms and behaviors, which allows individuals to navigate life without the anxiety of unpredictability.
The consistency and predictability of the crowd reduce the cognitive load of decision-making.
The crowd is faceless. Individuals go unnoticed. Independent thinking is MIA.
#3. Risk Aversion — Personal risk diminishes when surrounded by others.
Within the safety net of a crowd, individual actions often go unnoticed, and personal failures blend into the collective noise.
This anonymity allows individuals to participate without fear of judgment or failure.
#4. Predictability — The stability found in numbers is appealing.
Variations and uncertainties are absorbed by the crowd’s inertia, creating an environment where fewer surprises are the norm.
It minimizes the shocks of life’s unexpected turns.
#5. Safety — Crowds provide a figurative cloak of invisibility where individuals can pass through life unchallenged.
Amidst many, they can avoid unwanted attention, criticism, and the vulnerability that comes with being singled out.
The crowd sucks innovation and creativity from people. It’s not a value the crowd honors.
#6. Lack of Expectations — Being one among many means shedding the weight of individual expectations.
As part of the masses, individuals aren’t expected to stand out or excel, allowing for a simplistic existence.
#7. Effortlessness — The path of least resistance is to follow along with the crowd.
Leading or diverging requires energy, thought, and often confrontation — routes many prefer to avoid.
#8. Representation — There’s power in numbers, and the collective voice of the crowd often speaks louder than any individual could.
Being part of this group offers representation without the personal need to develop or express individual opinions or ideas.
Herd thinking has never led to anything remarkable or memorable. Herd output is benign and bland.
#9. Protection — The protective nature of the group against external threats offers solace.
The crowd acts as a buffer, dealing with outsiders collectively, which alleviates the pressure of individual conflict or resolution.
10. Self-sustaining — Crowds inherently sustain themselves.
As individuals drift into the collective, the momentum of the group persists, ensuring it’s always there to welcome more.
Despite these apparently compelling reasons, the prevalence of crowd mentality stifles innovation and creativity—crucial elements for progress.
The challenge lies in encouraging individuals to break away, fostering environments where innovation can thrive, and where standing out and being DiFFERENT isn’t met with resistance but is celebrated.
Cheers,
Roy
My Podcast Show Audacious Moves to A BILLION shares the specific Moves I made to achieve jaw-dropping growth in an insanely competitive internet business.
”The Audacious Unheard of Ways I Took a Startup to A BILLION IN SALES” is the latest in my BE DiFFERENT or be dead Book Series.
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- Posted 10.13.25 at 06:00 am by Roy Osing
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October 11, 2025
Stand Alone or Disappear: The Harsh Truth of Modern Business

Stand Alone or Disappear: The Harsh Truth of Modern Business
Let’s be straight up: if you’re just following the herd in today’s business climate, you’re heading for the slaughterhouse.
The “herd of sameness” is a graveyard for ambition, a breeding ground for mediocrity.
You need to break free, stake your claim, and establish a brand that’s undeniably, uniquely yours.
So, what’s your weapon against blending in? What makes you distinctly different?
This isn’t about incremental improvements; it’s about that gut-punch reason why someone should choose YOU over the sea of competitors.
What problem do you solve better, what CRAVINGS do you satisfy in a way no one else does?
If you can’t articulate that difference with ferocious clarity, you’re already swimming with the dead fish.
Forget the temptation to chase every trend, to mimic what everyone else is doing.
That’s the fast track to oblivion.
Focus on your core genius, the thing your target customers covet and that you’re legitimately exceptional at, and amplify it until it echoes through the marketplace.
Let the copycats choke on your dust.
But you can’t wage this war alone. You need a tribe of fiercely loyal individuals who buy into your vision with unwavering commitment.
Communicate your purpose with unbridled passion, and be ruthless about weeding out anyone who’s just going through the motions.
Complacency is a cancer, and it spreads fast.
Cultivate a culture that celebrates innovation, embraces calculated risks, and sees failure as a stepping stone, not a death sentence.
The business landscape is a battlefield, and you need to be agile, resilient, and ready to adapt at a moment’s notice.
This isn’t a game, it’s a goddamn fight for survival.
So, break away from the herd, unleash your unique power, and relentlessly pursue your vision.
In this merciless arena, the only way to thrive is to stand alone, to stand out.
Stand alone, or disappear.
The choice is yours – and time is running out. Tic…Tic…Tic…
Cheers,
Roy
My Podcast Show Audacious Moves to A BILLION shares the specific Moves I made to achieve jaw-dropping growth in an insanely competitive internet business.
”The Audacious Unheard of Ways I Took a Startup to A BILLION IN SALES” is the latest in my BE DiFFERENT or be dead Book Series.
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- Posted 10.11.25 at 06:00 am by Roy Osing
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