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November 18, 2013

Why a sneaky grin can show you a dishonest distrustful person


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Why a sneaky grin can show you a dishonest distrustful person.

Can you smile too much?

I think so.

There’s a big difference between a smile painted on a person and someone who expresses their pleasure at the moment with an exhilarating smile.

I don’t trust a person who has a smile on their face all the time.

It’s not real.

No one could be always-on.

Gushing with joy every nano-second.

I have been ’grinned’ a lot in my life.

In business it’s a common occurrence.

People that grin and agree with you but secretly despise what you say and will do anything to undermine you

Customers are often grinned by salespeople and servers who give the appearance of caring but really don’t give a shit.

Hire people who are honest smilers not phoney grinners.

Recruit ‘feeling smilers’ not obligatory grinners.

And if you notice one of your employees demonstrating a grinners’s behavior, call them on it.

Or fire their asses after coaching them that smiling with heart is the expected norm.

I will take the-not-always-on smiler any day.

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 11.18.13 at 05:20 am by Roy Osing
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