Roy's Blog: April 2012

April 2, 2012

Why a sneaky grin can mean you are being betrayed


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Why a sneaky grin can mean you are being betrayed.

Don’t judge a book by it’s cover….

Or a person by the way they’re dressed.

Sure an underwhelming cover sometimes masks brilliance. But it works the other way as well.

In fact the pretty package could hide a devastating downside. Great looks and a pristine veneer can be deceiving.

He can flash a big grin at you while cursing you under his breath. Ever been ‘grinned’?

He can answer all of your questions absolutely perfectly, yet he doesn’t believe a word he says.

The pretty first impression can be completely misleading.

The act can be captivating.

Better look deeper.

Better spend the time and confirm that his looks and words portray who he really is.

Fashion isn’t important. Human DNA is. Is he real? Does he care about other humans?

It really doesn’t matter what his intellectual capacity is. If he doesn’t relate to people he and you will be trouble.

If he can’t contribute to the humanity of your organization you won’t be getting a payback on your investment.

Do a deep dive under his pretty and plastic finish. Strip it off. Expose the real person. Be brutal if you have to.

If your experience with him doesn’t give you goosebumps, next…..

Cheers,
Roy
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  • Posted 4.2.12 at 10:41 am by Roy Osing
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